Celebrating Sisterhood.

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I was so happy when the very gorgeous and funny JBlondie honoured me by including me in her Sisterhood of Bloggers post. Thank you honey… and I hope to see you blogging again soon, ok?

I have always been a firm believer in women helping and supporting other women. We have enough roadblocks in our way in this still very much male-dominated world.

I am with Madeleine Albright when she said, “there is a special place in hell for women who don’t help other women.”

It angers me to see women run each other down. It suggests insecurity and jealousy. We can be better than that ladies!

I make it my priority to read, promote and support several excellent female bloggers here and I feel very good about doing it. I am happy enough with my own blogs to not ever feel that me promoting them in some way takes readership or traffic away from me. I enjoy building friendships and entering into stimulating discussions with them. And I learn something every time I do.

Women ROCK! We are strong, smart, funny, compassionate, caring, nurturing, sexy, fierce creatures. I would never trade being a woman for being a man… (well for one day only but you can read about that here!)

The rules:

  • Thank the blogger who nominated you and link back to their site;
  • Put the award logo on your blog;
  • Answer the ten questions sent to you;
  • Nominate seven blogs;

1.What is your favourite position?

No brainer! Two words ladies… Reverse Cowgirl.

If you haven’t tried this posiiton out… fix that!

You are in control of pace, pressure, penetration. (Yes, I am a sub but there are times I just want to get off, you know?)

And the feeling of him pressing and rubbing against your g-spot?

Fuuuuuuuck! that is soooooo divine!

What are you doing? You can read this later… go!

2.If you and your ten-year old self would meet and have a talk, what would she be telling you? 

I took the opposite view when I answered this question here, describing what I would say to her.

What she would say to me? Probably… “why aren’t you an actress yet? Why aren’t you in films? What happened?” And then she would cast me a scornful look and walk away…

3.What is the first bit of writing you did outside of school/homework ?

Around 12 I think. I liked to write short stories but I never showed anyone. As the teenage years brought  hormones, relationships, sex, I ventured into poetry… baaaad poetry! But it was sweet stuff…

“Endless pools of sleepy blue…” his eyes!

4. What’s your favorite song now?

Oh no! Right now? I listen to Uptown Funk A LOT! It’s just too catchy! But, of course, anything by Ed Sheeran and Hozier makes me happy!

5. If you could tell the world just one thing what would it be?

Kindness costs you nothing and will make you happier. Stop being cunts.

6.Which period of history had the best clothing?

Oh! 1920s! No doubt!

7. What makes you suddenly and disproportionately cross?

Rudeness. Narrow-mindedness. Wilful ignorance.

8. How good are you at keeping secrets?

I am a vault! What you tell me stays with me. Consider me a confessional, without the god stuff!

9. Do you have a pet? Tell us about her / him.

Lily! Poppy! Too much to tell!

I don’t own them, they own me. If you want to read about them… here.

10. If you could invent anything, what would it be?

Cures for horrible cruel diseases… cancer, Alzheimer’s, MND, ALS, MS, AIDS, Parkinson’s, malaria, everything, all of them.

On a frivolous note… a transporter, Star Trek style!

That was fun!

So, now it’s my turn to shout out to some of my talented, wonderful sisters on here! (One I really wanted to include is Felicity Johns, but my sis is so busy on her exciting new projects that I cut her some slack!)

So here are my gals! They have either entertained me, informed me, made me laugh, or turned me on! Thank you sisters!


A Word Adventure

Christina’s Musings





I can’t stop at 7! I am a rebel!

D. Parker

Honourable mention to WankOfTheDay  (I know there’s a guy in there too,but we will let that go!)


If I have omitted anyone, please do not be hurt! I am trying to keep in mind the lovely women I have been interacting with the most lately. Believe me, I could have kept going!

I want to thank all the amazing women blogging on here and encourage you all to keep it up.

Stay strong!

Stay fearless!

Never let your voice be silenced!

Now… if you found my post so fascinating that you still haven’t gone off to try the reverse cowgirl… Go!


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Apparently, I Am A Bad Girl…! YES!

Massive thanks to my lovely fellow sex blogger JBlondie http://jblondie.com for nominating me for the Bad Girls Blogger Award! I am flattered beyond words to think this incredibly talented and funny lady likes my little filthy scribbles. If you are not already reading and following her exploits, you are seriously missing a trick… go click that link and follow her. You can thank me later.

Starting my two erotica blogs has changed my life in several ways. I have connected with so many interesting new people and I am delighted to say that I have made real and, hopefully, lifelong friendships with some of them. I have allowed myself to explore my innermost desires and fantasies without censorship or self judgement. My opinions on many aspects of sex and sexuality have been challenged and I have changed my mind about where I stand on several issues. My research  into the world of BDSM has been a truly fascinating journey and I am glad to say I am a better person for it. JBlondie says I am a woman without boundaries… so fuck it, I’ll say it… yes, my sex life has certainly improved! The OH ain’t complaining either, wink, wink!

Now… onto the serious business of nominating some women I think you should definitely check out.

Here we go…

I know etiquette dictates that I should say these are in no particular order, but I need to hold my hands up and honestly say that the first on my list is first for a reason. After her, the list truly is in no particular order, but this woman simply stands alone for her talent and skills as a writer.

The Dark Night Chronicles http://felicityjohns.com is simply the most beautifully written and crafted blog I have become across, (no pun intended, although she WILL make you come!). She conjures up the most extraordinary imagery with her precise and pitch perfect selection of words. Her poetry in particular is a thing of beauty. When you read them, know this… she writes them all fast and unedited. This woman is one of those freaks of nature… the words flow out of her, effortlessly and prolifically. She has become a dear friend of mine, my soul sister, and I truly hope she gets the recognition and success she deserves. FYI she is releasing an e-book in the not too distant future so keep those eyes peeled. (Did I mention that she is a talented artist too? Yeah, she’s kind of annoying that way!)

Ms DI http://deliciouslyinappropriate.wordpress.com combines very, very sexy stories with insightful and interesting non-fiction pieces about her experiences and views on the BDSM life. I am looking forward to diving into her blog and reading more than what I have discovered to date. I highly recommend you check her out.

Rachel Woe http://rachelwoe.com writes very hot stories! I am a fan of her Flash Fiction in particular. She specialises in pushing the boundaries and exploring taboos. Check out her excellent novel-in-progress The Cabin. Go!

Sex w/Annie https://aedmonds315.wordpress.com won me over with a delightfully lighthearted and funny post about the contents of people’s bedside drawers. She writes frankly and openly about sex, love and relationships. She is an excellent resource and is bursting with tips to improve your sex and love life.

Savannah the loving wife of  http://warmcreme.wordpress.com gets a special mention. This blog is predominately managed by Will, her husband, but the lovely Savannah has started to write on it now also. This couple are truly inspiring. They are exploring new frontiers in their relationship, and are generous enough to share their journey with us. I love this pair!

I do hope you take the time to check out these amazing women, and if you have other blogs to suggest that I could follow I would be delighted to hear about them… I am always looking for new reading material!

RULES: If you are a recipient, please choose 3-5 female bloggers who write about sex (or post sexy pics of them selves, or both) that you admire and award them by passing on the award photo above and the rules.  Also, give a brief explanations of why you love those bloggers so much. 

Be sure to notify your favourite bloggers that they got the award! (Or Don’t…as The Rambling Goat would say…”Meh” …you still won whether you nominate others or not)




Oh So Lovely Blog Award

My new bestie Felicity at The Dark Night Chronicles (http://felicityjohns.wordpress.com) very kindly nominated me for this award… thank you honey! If you haven’t read her blog… correct that right now!

Here are the rules for our nominees:

1. You must thank the person who nominated you and include a link to their blog.

2. You must list the rules.

3. You must add 7 facts about yourself.

4. You must nominate 15 other bloggers and comment on one of their posts to let them know they have been nominated.

5. You must display the award logo and follow the blogger who nominated you.


Seven facts about me…

1. I am a lover, not a fighter

2. I adore my dogs

3. I love to laugh and make people laugh

4. I never, ever follow rules

5. I never judge

6. I don’t do ‘grey’, it’s all or nothing with me

7. I am short, like really short

Now for my nominations!


The Darkside of the Moon

The Dark Night Chronicles

Steve and Jon’s best things

Where’s my xanax…??


P.S. Please Don’t Be a Serial Killer



story medic



Alexzandra Goode